Saturday, April 25, 2009

Brian Hamrick.

It is with great sorrow that I write concerning the sad news in our church family. Brian Hamrick, our pastor and friend, died last night due to complications from a blood clot. According to his wife, Katherine, they enjoyed a restful and joyful day together at the hospital -- singing hymns, praying together, and talking. He died rather quickly that night.

Joshua and I were at a movie down the street from the hospital in Fort Myers when our phone rang with the news that he was coding. Praise God that we were so close by for Katherine and the children (we live about 1.5 hours away)!!

I have never felt such sorrow as I did last night...sitting on a curb outside the hotel holding a crying widow and weeping while her children lay sleeping inside. It was the saddest thing I have ever experienced.

Luke is almost 2 and Nathan is almost 5. Tonight, Nathan told his mom he wanted to go see his Daddy. She used his question to explain to Nathan why he could not see his Daddy. Katherine is a brave, Godly woman. Please pray for her and the kids.

It is with great joy that we celebrate the fact that Brian was a faithful saint and trusted in his Lord Jesus Christ. Katherine and I were in awe thinking about Heaven as we sat there on the curb holding hands, our faces stained with tears of sorrow. As difficult as this situation is, Brian is in the arms of his Creator and Father. He is there. He is with Jesus. He is home.

I found this post by Tom Ascol a sweet reminder of a Christian perspective on death. Thank you Tom. This was a welcomed encouragement to our family!!!


...I visited with Brian last Sunday night during one of his more difficult times. I read Augustine's favorite Psalm to him (Psalm 32) and before we prayed, he said, "Tom, I want you to know that I am ready for whatever the Lord has for me. If He heals me, I am ready. If not, I am ready for that, too. It's OK." His grip was as strong as his faith and I left encouraged by the obvious display of God's grace in his life. I grieve over our loss.

I hate death. It is, after all, our "last enemy." We were not built to die. Sin ushered in death to the human experience. For the Christian, death is gain because it means entrance into the immediate presence of our Lord. But it is still a sorrowful experience because not only does it separate a husband from his wife, a father from his children and a pastor from his flock, but it also separates the spirit from the body. We were not designed to experience any of these losses.

Although death is an enemy, for the follower of Jesus Christ, it is a defeated enemy. Christ has conquered death through His powerful resurrection. As such, He is the "firstfruits," the trail blazer for all who are trusting Him. As He has gone, so those who are His shall also go. The resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead has removed the sting of death for every believer. Though we will not escape it, we no longer have to be terrorized by it.

That is why Christian grief is different from the grief of unbelievers. Yes, we grieve, but not as those who have no hope. "For if we believe that Jesus died and rose again, even so God will bring with Him those who sleep in Jesus" (1 Thessalonians 4:13-14).

Brian was a faithful husband, father and pastor. He loved God's Word and was willing to teach and preach with gentleness and patience, trusting the Lord to do His work in His time through His appointed means. I am grateful to have known him.

Please pray for his family. Katherine knew far more clearly than did Brian the seriousness of his situation. The one request that she made of me last week was to pray that her faith would be strengthened. May the Lord grant her this. Pray for Nathan and Luke who are too young fully to comprehend what their dad's death means. Pray for Associate Pastor Joshua Vincent, Worship Pastor Todd Buck and the church as they grieve the loss of their friend and shepherd. And pray that, as in his life, so in his death, Brian's Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, will receive glory and honor....

3 comments:

Tracy said...

So sorry to hear the sad news. We will be praying y'all, the Hamricks and the church.
Much love, Josh and Tracy

Rich Clark said...

I was horrified to hear of this. Death is awful, and I can't imagine how hard this must be. I am praying for you guys and will especially pray for guidance and Josh leads this church during an awfully hard time.

Jill K said...

Cari,

I am grieving with you. Such hurt over the distance between you all now.... and YES, such secure HOPE too. Praying for you guys and for Katherine and the boys. May Christ somehow be all the more richly glorified in this dear man's death as he was so clearly in his life.

Oh, I am praying for you all now.

Love, Jill Kasowski